Divorce

On a recent Thursday, I found out I wasn’t dying. And before you get all literal on me: Yes, I realize we’re all dying from the moment we’re born, that life is one big death march, blah blah blah. I mean to say: I found out I wasn’t dying imminently. …

Please tell me I’m not the only one who tirelessly fantasizes about him. You know, him: Bigger than life. Generous. Giving and gracious and kind. Maybe even blue with the voice of Robin Williams (may he rest in peace). Yup, I fantasize about finding a genie. Because dammit, I want …

I recently got a new tattoo. It’s a Sanskrit word that translates to “heat” in English. The word, which is “tapas” (yes…like little plates of food), can also be interpreted as catharsis, austerities, self discipline, spiritual effort, change, tolerance or transformation. It represents the difficult things one must endure in …

I have a confession to make. I desperately need to get lucky. Seriously. The situation is dire. It has been soooooooo long. Since I’ve felt lucky. In love. Sheesh, people — get your minds out of the gutter. This is a family website, after all. Anyhow, yes, my own personal …

This entry is part 10 of 12 in the series Mom ConfessionsWe received this anonymous response to a recent Mom Confession entitled To Stay or To Go.  Only on RMB — an anonymous conversation!  Dear ‘To Stay or To Go,’ When I read your confession, I cried for you. You …

This entry is part 11 of 12 in the series Mom Confessions“I’m my worst self when I’m around him.” It’s been a phrase that started as a fleeting thought, but has grown louder and more resounding over the past year or so. “Him” is my husband. I’m a full-time working …

Becoming a step parent can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience. It can also be one of the most difficult roles an adult will ever assume. In May, my friend, Ashley, officially became the stepmom of three dynamic children aged 11, 10 and 6. This month, I’m sharing pieces of …

No one gets married with the intention of getting divorced. I’ll never forget my first Christmas post divorce. My boys spent the holiday with their Dad. I spent it alone. I remember that day like it was yesterday - driving the boys to their Dad’s house, pulling up in front, …

Split? Break-up? The Big D? What to call it is probably the least difficult thing about divorce. As I learned last year, there are countless demons to face and challenges to overcome during a divorce. I was surprised to find that many people will openly discuss them if prompted. For …